The room was dark. He was alone. Soon his thoughts were filled with debbie. The most beautiful woman he’d ever known. His temperature began to rise. His hands wandered underneath his pants as his thoughts about her became more intense. It moved in a regular manner and never stopped till his face flushed. He went to clean up and resumed to his bed. Then he remembered debbie’s last words earlier that day, “I will be spending the weekend at Peter’s place, take care”. He had just masturbated. He got sad and guilty.
Married to her husband for four years, she has been unhappy. He was a lousy, bashful and selfish lover but she loved him still. She has tried few times to let him know about her dissatisfaction but he’d always talk her down. One day, she got herself a little toy. This little toy gave her the satisfaction her husband failed to give her. She had just masturbated. She was happy.
Is masturbation really wrong?
Its wrong and right
ReplyDeleteIt is very bad jur!
ReplyDeleteWhen you say it's wrong do you mean medically (like you'd talk of drug abuse), morally or do you mean spiritually? Do you see it as a sin??? Cos if you do; then you are lousy hypocrites since you ain't virgins (male or female) neither are you married. Point is: don't go saying masturbation is a sin if you fcuk outta wedlock- you'd only be a pot calling kettle black. I'll say I haven't seen where the bible condemns it. However, its medically wrong.i e. hazardous to a male practitioner of the act because it is said to reduce actual libido when the guy is required to have a real contact with the female specie. It makes the sperm watery over time too. As for the ladies; I don't know if it has a medical downside for the practitioners.
ReplyDeleteThat gives rise to another topic. If masturbation cause side effects.
DeleteIts about ur mindset
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DeleteMen get easily aroused wen they see naked women.Hweva,there is a strong blieve that nude images brings abt this urge for sex in men.so if u r a man and ur gf is not around and u watch porn movies alone,u r likely to wank.I would say it's wrong bcos of d nature it's conceived!wrong is wrong,it doesn't matter d perspective u look @ it.
ReplyDeleteDo you think porn plays a major role?
DeleteI feel people who masturbate hav a dysfunctional and degenerated sex life. Your inability to control ur sex drive shldn't drive u into doing some acts u're not necessarily 'proud' of.
ReplyDeleteSome people are proud of masturbating. There are even therapists who advise their clients to do so. Would you say women who have sex toys have a dysfunctional sex life?
DeleteI wonder y d guy felt guity n d gurl felt happy? Curious abt d diff reactns both had after d act. Well medically its nt harmful to a gurl...so dat maks me lucky... Morally dey said its bad...well nobody knws am doin it...biblically i think its a sin :( .
ReplyDeleteI enjoy masturbatin nt cos i cnt control ma sex drive but cos i enjoy it better dan sex...wit sex i cnt cum but wit masturbatn i dey cum wella
If you enjoy masturbation to sex, I think you need to have a re-think about it. You can't go all your lifetime like so. There are ways you can actually have orgasms with your partner. Hereby, doing away with masturbation.
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