Can three people be in love?

johnson, lively and kitsch in the movie "savages"

I Watched a movie recently titled "Savages". An American crime movie directed by Oliver Stone based on a novel by Don Winslow also titled "Savages".

It is about a face-off between two cannabis farmers and a mexican drug cartel who kidnapped their shared girlfriend.

The two cannabis farmers were Aaron Johnson (Ben) and Taylor Kitsch (Chon), while their shared girlfriend is Blake lively (O).

An unusual movie for me. Does this happen for real or its just another fiction from our darling film makers? I won't be surprised when this starts to trend.

As open relationships are gradually becoming more accepted especially by the west, can three people actually be in love?

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The good, bad and ugly of pick up lines

Pick up lines – first thing you say when you approach someone of interest. 

I stumbled on some few years back, they were so funny I couldn't forget them. The bad ones are so many. There are like tons of bad pick up lines like these ones
"I need a secretary, how is your dictation"
"I just called heaven and they said an angel is missing"
"Its a good thing I wore glove today; otherwise you’d be too hot to handle"

"Do your legs hurt from running through my dreams all night?"
"Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk again?"
"I’m Mr.Right, I heard you are looking for me!"
"People call me John but you can call me Tonight"
Sweet Jesus!!! Do they really work?

Share the best and worst you have come across. 

Well, as for me the best is "Hi".

Premature Ejaculation - A thing of the mind?

 
Dear LF readers, I’m a young guy in his early twenties, tall and good-looking. At times women ask me out, even as far as sex. But sex is a no-go area for me because i ejaculate too soon. I'm beginning to develop a phobia for sex and women against my wish.The last time it happened, the girl laughed at me and avoided me. Please I need your help.

What women want

"what a woman looks for in a partner changes as she ages" - Helen Fisher Ph.D, professor of anthropology at Rudgers University and relationship expert.

Have you ever asked a woman (or group of women) what she (they) find in a man? I have done that a couple of times. I discovered that what women want in men actually changes with their experience too.

"What a woman wants varies with her experience".
As a woman grows older she accumulates experience. That makes "age" a precursor to experience because you can find an inexperienced thirty-something year old woman.

With my little fact finding, I have discovered that what a woman want is what "eludes her". For example, a short girl wants a tall guy more than a tall girl, a poor lady who finds it difficult to pay her tuition fees would desire a rich guy who can take care of her. I also come to conclusion that most younger women have unrealistic wants while the matured women settle for the realistic ones. Life has a way of "removing the prefixes from the immature, inexperienced and unrealistic women".

Young Woman: I want a guy that is very rich, tall, dark and handsome. I want him to be a christian, intelligent, funny, muscular, romantic, smart, classy, creative, adventurous, confident and someone who will always pay attention to me.
Matured woman: I want a guy in his early thirties, a christian, interesting, well to do. He must have a decent job too.

If you are a guy who tries to find an answer to this question, I'm sorry to disappoint you as the answer is very much open ended. I can only tell that what a woman wants stem from a major lack. She would not want something she already has.

Who Cheats Most?

I watched few episodes of cheaters and noticed that more men were caught cheating. In my real world, women actually are equally unfaithful, perhaps even more unfaithful than men. In my opinion, I think women cheat most, they are just good at hiding it.

What do you think LF readers?