Friday, 3 August 2012
What women want
"what a woman looks for in a partner changes as she ages" - Helen Fisher Ph.D, professor of anthropology at Rudgers University and relationship expert.
Have you ever asked a woman (or group of women) what she (they) find in a man? I have done that a couple of times. I discovered that what women want in men actually changes with their experience too.
"What a woman wants varies with her experience".
As a woman grows older she accumulates experience. That makes "age" a precursor to experience because you can find an inexperienced thirty-something year old woman.
With my little fact finding, I have discovered that what a woman want is what "eludes her". For example, a short girl wants a tall guy more than a tall girl, a poor lady who finds it difficult to pay her tuition fees would desire a rich guy who can take care of her. I also come to conclusion that most younger women have unrealistic wants while the matured women settle for the realistic ones. Life has a way of "removing the prefixes from the immature, inexperienced and unrealistic women".
Young Woman: I want a guy that is very rich, tall, dark and handsome. I want him to be a christian, intelligent, funny, muscular, romantic, smart, classy, creative, adventurous, confident and someone who will always pay attention to me.
Matured woman: I want a guy in his early thirties, a christian, interesting, well to do. He must have a decent job too.
If you are a guy who tries to find an answer to this question, I'm sorry to disappoint you as the answer is very much open ended. I can only tell that what a woman wants stem from a major lack. She would not want something she already has.
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I personally believe that this very true. However, the lady tends to succumb to any man who is able to meet her needs financially, emotionally and in personal attributes.
ReplyDeleteQuite an enlightening write-up.
ReplyDeleteThe true of the matter is that ladies dont really know what they want. Infact they tends to change their want as they grow older searching for d right man. A lady above 30 years will tell u. He want a God fearing guy, others may follow. Na so i dey go. Even it go reach one stage way she no go mind married man. Inshort their wants flunctuate with their age.
ReplyDeleteVery true
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